Are You Ready To Dip Your Toes In the Water of Dating?

As you begin to navigate your life after loss, do you find yourself wondering which relationship is right for you? How do you decide how and when it’s time to dip your toes into the water?

You and I are going to look at the last piece of organizing your thoughts and feelings around dating and relationships: deciding what kind of relationship you want to explore. Remember friends, this is your show, and you get to make the choices!

Just as there are many ponds and ways to dip your toes into the water, there are as many choices for how you can enter into the world of dating. It’s your show and you get to do it on your terms!

Julie Martella

As you can see, there’s many options before you move “into a relationship” and none of them are good nor bad. They just are different ways to figure out what you want. Other people may have opinions about them, but it’s your life and you get to do it any way you want. Let the haters hate!

You and I know only too well that even meeting for a cup of coffee can seem like a monumental task. The thought of entering into a LTR was terrifying! Knowing I had options helped me relax and enjoy dating for what it was: a chance to dip my toes into the water and see if I even liked the pond! Guess what friends? Some ponds I liked, and may have left my toes in for a bit, and some ponds I didn’t, and those toes come right back out with no remorse!

Sending you so much love today!


P.S. If you are struggling with dating or any other part of navigating widowhood, lets’ connect and see if I can help you! I run a program by the same name that is designed to help you organize the logistics of life after loss so that you can move forward and create a new life to love!

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