The holidays and the approach of a new year can feel overwhelming for widows, bringing waves of emotion and uncertainty about what lies ahead. As someone who has navigated this path and now guides others through the logistics and emotional complexities of widowhood, I understand how challenging this season can be.
That’s why I’ve created this free Survival Toolkit—a collection of practical, proven resources designed to help you manage the overwhelm and take small, meaningful steps toward healing. These tools aren’t just theory—they’re grounded in my personal journey and years of coaching widowed men and women through similar challenges.
Whether you’re feeling stuck, stressed, or unsure about what’s next, this toolkit is here to provide clarity, support, and hope.
1. Survivor’s Checklist: Your First Steps After Loss
In the early days of widowhood, the whirlwind of tasks can feel overwhelming. The Survivor’s Checklist is here to simplify that chaos.
What it includes:
- Practical guidance on managing legal documents, organizing finances, and tackling immediate priorities.
- A sense of control in a time of upheaval.
How to access it:
Download it for free on my website. Take it one step at a time—there’s no rush.
2. Self-Care Checklist: Prioritize Yourself This Holiday Season
Grief drains energy, and self-care often takes a back seat. This checklist is a gentle nudge to make yourself a priority, even when it feels hard.
Why it matters:
- Simple actions like staying hydrated, resting, and taking a walk can boost your resilience.
How to use it:
Focus on just one or two items a day. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about small, healing moments.
3. Grocery List Planner: Simplify Mealtime Stress
The holidays can make mealtime feel daunting. The Grocery List Planner brings ease and organization to your meals, so you can focus on what matters most.
Why it’s helpful:
- Reduce decision fatigue with a simple plan for the week.
- Stick to a budget and minimize last-minute trips to the store.
How to start:
Download the planner and plan a few simple meals—you’ve got this!
4. Sorting Sentimental Items Cheat Sheet: Declutter with Heart
The end of the year often inspires reflection. If you’re ready to declutter but feel weighed down by sentimental items, this cheat sheet offers a compassionate approach.
What it provides:
- A step-by-step guide to honoring memories while making space for the future.
- Strategies to let go without guilt.
How to use it:
Pick one small area, like a drawer or a box, and let the cheat sheet guide you.
Why These Tools Matter
Widowhood is a journey no one expects, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. These resources were created to help you feel supported and empowered, one small step at a time. They’re not about perfection—they’re about progress.
👉 Access Your Free Toolkit Today
What’s one area you’d like support with as the year ends? Let me know in the comments or share this post with someone who could benefit from these tools. Together, we can make this season a little lighter—and a lot more hopeful.
With compassion and hope,
Julie

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