Learning to travel alone as a solo traveler can be a nerve-wracking experience, especially after the loss of a spouse or partner. The thought of being in a strange place without your person might bring up feelings of anxiety or uncertainty. I was terrified the first time I traveled after the loss of my husband. 

There are many way to see the world, or even your backyard, without having a partner by your side. I know it takes some courage, but I want to encourage you to tap into your inner traveler and show your brain that you can do it!

I’ve been people become very limited because of the stories their brain feeds them that say, “you can’t travel alone.”

I don’t want that to happen to you.

I want you to learn that you actually CAN travel alone! It will be different, but it can be done. Are you ready to take the first baby steps to becoming a solo-traveler? Here some ways you can ease into solo travel!

Start with Day Trips

Kick off your solo travel journey with day trips to nearby towns or attractions. Explore local museums, parks, or cultural sites. It’s a great way to get comfortable with traveling alone while staying close to home. I used to give myself a two hour rule: I needed to be able to get to my destination in two hours. 

Travel Smart Tip: Always share your itinerary with a friend or family member, and check in periodically.

Explore Your Own City

Be a tourist in your own city! Visit landmarks, try new restaurants, or attend local events. This helps you practice navigating and planning without the pressure of being far from home. Some cities offer guided tours of historic districts, art districts, or other interesting places.

Travel Smart Tip: Carry a charged phone and a portable charger to ensure you can always reach someone if needed.

Join a Traveling Group

There are many online groups that travel.  The benefits of joining these types of travel groups include having a planned itinerary as well as a group of like minded individuals with which to enjoy the trip. You can room with someone or by yourself. This allows for as much autonomy as you want. 

Travel Smart Tip:  Do your research! Check out potential groups with the better business bureau, reddit, and online reviews.

Book a Weekend Getaway

Plan a short weekend trip to a nearby town or resort. Choose a destination that’s easy to reach and offers activities you enjoy. This is a great way to dip your toes into solo travel without committing to a long trip. I live between the beach and the mountains, so both provide me with lots of activities and options. Is there a place close to you that you’d like to explore?

Travel Smart Tip: Research your destination thoroughly and book accommodations in safe, reputable areas.

My Experience

I cried the first time I had to rent a car by myself in a strange town. I took a moment to feel the feels, and then told myself that I could figure this out.

What a wonderful feeling it was when I arrived home and realized had done everything needed to travel, and I could do it again if chose or needed to.

Today I travel more than ever, and yes, often alone.

I still miss my person. I prefer traveling with others any day of the week….. BUT, if I need to, I know that I have all of the resources within me to take a solo-trip. I know how to stay safe, how to book the different parts of the trip, and how to find things to see, do and eat while I’m there.

My friends, if you want to travel, don’t let your fear of being alone create a prison of your own making that keeps you stuck at home. Adventure awaits and it has your name attached to it.

Remember, you can do this, and I’m here to help.

Julie

P.S. Over in Patreon, I’ve made you some goodies this week! You’ll find a Scavenger Hunt to help you explore new cities, a packing list, and a travel itinerary worksheet to help you plan your next adventure! Simply go to patreon.com and type in navigating widowhood.